If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward. He too goes to the vacation house a lot to take care of the property and the boat on most weekends he is not on call, and it has been something I have been made to accept. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. He can't make a mental switch easily to adjust to our pace of life. I was in your same position years ago. Since her father is a bishop, I'm sure he'll want to have his daughter marry a temple worthy person. From someone else in the medical field - a nightly phone call would be seriously draining, even if it only lasted a few minutes. She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. In fact, you likely will meet a few.
And after dating a few months we both knew we wanted to get married. Oh your fiance works in the medicine field, too. I dated a doctor who was into me and saw me frequently. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel. See if you can become involved only if it follows your strengths and desires. I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. Sexually, risque and the such is essentially the same as baptists and fundamental Christians. However, if you are a Catholic guy dating a Mormon girl, then remember that her parents may be averse to it.
Does he come home on time after work. Try to find out his schedule in detail. I feel like I am under the microscope. I envy all you lonely doctor wives. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. To her, if you don't marry in the temple, she will probably do it after you die anyway. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. Or get them met elsewhere.
Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. If this happens, it might click something in her mind that says that what she experienced was pleasurable and she would like to have it again. You will desire to have that eternal marriage, to have that support in taking kids to church, to be able to talk docterine with a like-minded individual. I ran across your post out of desperation. Mormons love to have fun, but they prefer keeping it clean, respectful, and something that everyone can enjoy. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. Basically this is different than dating a religious mainstream Christian.