The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. For whatever reason, none of them ever seemed that interested in me I freely admit this could have been cluelessness on my partand so never turned serious. Look up all the threads of people who are dealing with their true believing spouses -- the guilt, the silence, the bad communication, the hostage-taking.
The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing. It's like talking to a wall. Thank you for pointing this out. Learn all you can. I know some people don't like the sound of "working for a relationship", but it can be so rewarding. No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members.
If you don't mind some slightly off-topic advice, I can assure you that you will meet plenty of other beautiful, interesting women going forward. Their thinking is something like this. If you are very much willing to accept and understand all of these, whether you are a Mormon or not, you can expect that it is fun to date a Mormon girl. She has encouraged me to read LDS. Home no title About Contact. That and this recent article https: They are trying to explain how it's ok that the founder used a magic rock to hunt for buried treasure to earn money, and then used that same "seer stone" to translate the Book of Mormon. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea. It's not fair to put words in her mouth and thoughts in her brain like this. Two people can be as completely different as it is possible to be and respect each others' beliefs.
No sex before marriage. If you are feeling neglected, then tell him so. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. I actually had one of my friends say to me, " why are you worried about what he is doing when you aren't there he spends hundreds of dollars on you when you are there who cares that he hasn't texted you". If so, you have a chance. And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail. He may never want anything to do with Mormons or the church again. You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself.