Imagine my disappointment in later life when I realised that no man I met would ever admit to having a name for his penis, or a fetish for dressing up as a penguin. When I was a teenager, sex was presented almost entirely in negative terms. Look at this photo of a genital wart! Listen to the voiceover describing the miracle of birth while a woman screams in agony! Understand that sex is largely terrible, boys will try to cajole you into it, and your job is to stop them. There was only one problem with this approach — the same one that bedevilled the messages we were given about drugs. If these things were so self-evidently awful, why were so many people so keen to do them? Yet a whole edifice seemed fixed in place to protect us from ourselves, and from the dangerous vaginas we were carrying around like unexploded bombs. Warning young women about the dire consequences of what can happen if they succumb to sex is nothing new. The signs of sin may change — from bobbed hair and miniskirts to grinding against Robin Thicke and sexting — but the message remains the same.
What women wish they had known about sex
What does this have to do with Facebook? Turns out a whole lot, because there is no being neutral in this situation. You either help change it or you actively tolerate it and encourage the perpetrators of violence by doing so. Earlier this week I wrote about how the use of photography especially without the subject's consent intensifies harassment, abuse and violence against women. Quicker than I could type " Feministe " this Change.
Gemma Cairney, Radio 1 DJ, 29
Top definition. IT girl unknown. She has everything that you want so you tend to envy her. She does all the things that you can't do so you grow to hate her. Being an "It Girl" is having the latest shits, the best clothing and always stays fly and the prettiest face. Her attitude can be fucked up or perfect like her looks.
Top definition. The nickname of 6'8 " lb mobster found in every prison, who has been convicted for a string of violent crimes. Usually, tiny is muscle for someone else, due to a low mental capacity and uneasiness about his size. Quite well-endowed, tiny will seek to butt-fuck people smaller than him.